Best of Grand Teton National Park

I can’t say enough great things about our trip to Grand Teton National Park - we spent 4 full days exploring the park, but you could definitely do it in 3. I wouldn’t try to shorten it anymore than that or you are going to miss some very worthy highlights. The best part is that there is something for everyone - hiking, biking, swimming, and kayaking. Plus plenty of great food!

Keep reading for our recommendations on the best hikes, kayaking, beaches, sights, food, lodging, and much, much more…

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Perseverance and Pervasiveness

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Along my drive to my parent's house, I was listened to a talk show on 95.3 FM, which was seemingly titled "Perseverance and Pervasiveness."  The broadcasters were comparing the traits of Marines and Olympic Athletes.   Their argument is that both of these groups share the traits of perseverance and pervasiveness.  

Listening to this  broadcast,  I was both confused and intrigued - as I had no idea what this really meant or where it was going. 

The broadcaster went to talk about how these two groups of outstanding individuals share two main traits - those of perseverance and pervasiveness.  It's not only that they share these traits, it how they go about achieving them.

 

 

The way that they show perseverance in their day to day lives is one major aspect that sets them apart.  Take the way an Olympic Athlete trains.  Sure, like you or I, they look at their end goal - winning a gold medal.  But what sets an Olympic athlete apart from another athlete is the way that they achieve that goal.  

 

INTRINSIC MOTIVATION  -- Both groups have unusually high levels of intrinsic motivation. External rewards, such as getting paid, undermine this, so getting paid for something actually decreases a person's natural motivation.   Those who have intrinsic motivation are likely to believe that the results are within their control, rather than occurring due to outside factors.  These type of people innately believe that the harder you work, the more that you will achieve. 

AVOID DISTRACTIONS -- Maintaining a routine is essential to keep a constant commitment. Don't procrastinate.  Don't put off the task that you need to do in order to just feel good now.  Realize that a challenging task will not be any easier tomorrow, so listen to the words of Benjamin Franklin and "don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today." 

SELF-AWARENESS --  It causes people to work on their faults and  keeps the ego in check. This practice requires us to focus on ourselves in order to   evaluate our current behavior against our internal standards and values.  It develops gradually through a succession of different behaviors which all relate to oneself. Meditation, feedback, talking with friends, and writing down your goals/priorities are all methods used by Marines and Olympic Athletes to increase self-awareness.

CELEBRATE EACH SMALL SUCCESS -- They take each day, each practice, one at a time.  The set an achievable goal for themselves each day, making each day a success.  By promoting and celebrating each small success, it creates the presence of constant achievement. The same practice occurs when Marines are training.

STAY PRESENT -- Pervasiveness is about staying present in every aspect of their days. Take everything minute by minute.  Pay attention to your thoughts. Keep  your attention and focus in the here and now.  Realize that thoughts are exactly that, thoughts. What matters is where you are, right now, in this moment. 

NEVER GIVE UP --Maintain strength, courage, and conviction through any circumstance. Eventually all of your determination will pay off.  

 

This last one may not be from the Marines or Olympic Athletes, but...

Do sharks complain about Mondays? No. They're up early, biting stuff, being scary - reminding everyone that they're a fucking shark.   BE A FUCKING SHARK. 

Vintage Exterior Paint Colors

As hundred year old properties are being renovated all around Kansas City, one of the biggest decision points is whether to keep the roots of the original charm and style of the home or update it to a modern vibe.  Ultimately, I decided that one couldn't have complete disregard for the origins of the building.  So vintage inspired paint colors became the goal. 

I started researching pictures of historic Hyde Park in Kansas City, and (duh) - they were all in black and white, so that didn't get me very far.  At the turn of the century, paint companies offered a very limited number of colors, mainly variations of earth tones such as sage, salmon, forest green, cadmium blue, plus off-white tones. 

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10 Ways to Devour Avocados

I LOVE AVOCADOS!  They should be their own food group. Their versatility.  They're delectable.  Fresh, raw, fried, or combined in a dish.  It doesn't matter.  They're simply delicious.  So really, why not list the best ways to eat, enjoy, and share avocados with your friends.  With a little help from my friends over at Pinterest, I'm sharing my favorites ways to enjoy an avocado!

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Writing a Contractor Scope of Work for Home Renovation

When you're starting to find contractors to complete a home renovation project, one of the hardest things to judge is making sure that all the contractors are pricing the same work - especially if it's big or complicated.  Simple projects are easy, you can generally communicate through gestures, discussions, waves of the hand, and everyone is on the same page.  But multifaceted renovation projects cannot be done that way as easily.  

The more that you know about your scope, the better product you will get from your contractor because you know exactly what you are asking them to do.  Plus, it helps mitigate the fear of a contractor ripping you off.  The more educated you appear (even if it is a false front), the better the contractor will do of explaining what they are doing, why, and how much it costs.  

Enter: The Contractor Scope of Work

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DIY: Build Your Own Kitchen Island

My kitchen has long been one of those rooms in my home that I put in the category of "almost complete."  When I moved in, it had already been beautifully redone with white headboard cabinets, marble countertops, a farmhouse sink, and wonderful stainless appliances to boot!   But, the problem is that it's kind of an awkward size.  There isn't truly enough room to put a nice island (not to mention any type of table), yet without something there is just this dead space in the middle.  Plus no where to put out food for guests or let a friend sit to talk to you while you cook.

So, my idea for a solution became a kitchen island on wheels.  Thus, I could move it into the corner under the window when it became to burdensome, but I have it there for everyday use - because if there was one downside to my beautiful kitchen, it's that it is a little short on counter space.

under the window when it became to burdensome, but I have it there for everyday use - because if there was one downside to my beautiful kitchen, it's that it is a little short on counter space.

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Packing for a Safari

Packing for any extended trip is tough, but especially challenging when you've never gone on a trip like it before!  Packing for our family trip to Africa was that challenge for me. 

Wanting to hit comfort plus have decent style?  Here are some of the key pieces that helped us along our way that will give your packing list a boost!

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We bought a Hexplex!

We bit the bullet, so to speak.

So, as some as our friends know, we've been thinking about buying a property to renovate and rent for many years now.  But between the one million other things that seem to comprise daily life, we've never found the time (nor the right property) to say yes to.  Well, I'm excited to say that we finally found the place!  

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